Good News – Just Not Mine – Again…


Well there’s a novel title for an IF blog post! (insert dry laughter here)

A family member (it always is) is pregnant again by accident (no surprises here)

How do I feel?  The same as ever (predictably).

What next?


11 thoughts on “Good News – Just Not Mine – Again…

  1. Jess says:

    *hugs* It sucks!

  2. samcy says:

    Fark!!! Not fair my friend, not fair. HUGS to you.


  3. Bea says:

    I want it to be your turn.


  4. Sara says:

    Ugh. I’m sorry.

    I hope that the next time you have good news to share, it’s about YOU!

  5. Sarah says:

    that just makes me want to barf on the booties. it’s so totally your turn.

  6. Lin says:

    Agreed…unfair! (((HUGS))) We recently found out that we’re dealing with MFI, too.

  7. Chantelle says:

    so I was scrolling through the net looking for PG symptoms which I always swear I am not going to do and then end up at 11DPO searching for something anything! Then I found this post. I read your first ones on blog spot and then frantically came onto wordpress. After all your last post there was in 2007 surely come 2009 the good news would come. I don’t understand the laws of nature. Surely if there was a god then good would be righted over evil and those that deserve to hold their own babies in loving arms would have them. I don’t know what to say, my waiting of 9 months seems ridiculous compared to what you have gone through. the only things to hold onto is that if Nicole Kidman can have a baby at 40 and Geena Davis twins at 48 then there is always still hope – even though hope can be damn hard to swallow. I wish you all the best for a miracle.

  8. mandsloved says:

    Thank you. What we would do without blog friends – I just don’t know.

  9. Patricia says:

    Found your blog by accident. I know exactly how you feel…I spent 10 years in pursuit of a pregnancy, while my 4 sisters-in-law all got pregnant mulltiple times. I finally said no to all the needles, highs & lows, when a baby landed in our lives due to an offhand comment I made. This baby is now 12 years old and the joy of our lives.
    Hang in there-it can happen!! Take care.

  10. Elisabeth says:


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    I am contacting you after stumbling across your blog. I am recruiting participants for my study, and wanted to invite you and your husband to take part. All that would be involved would be the completion of an online survey, that would take approximately 20 minutes. All couples who complete the surveys will receive a voucher good for a pair of free movie tickets at a Regal Cinemas.

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